When I think of my childhood, it is so hard not to think of the Preston family. They were a huge part of my life and remained so during my formative years. I am happy and blessed to call Sharon my dearest, closest friend. We met when we were four years old. Over the years, I spent much of my life at the Preston's. Fred was always such a bright light. He was the most generous person I encountered during those years. Always bringing some treat for his children and the neighbourhood children -- whether it was bagels, egg bread, Dracula popsicles or something else; Fred gave freely to anyone who showed up at his doorstep. He often acted as a father figure to the many, many children who graced his doorstep. Giving so much to so many, he still had so much to give his own family. He loved his children deeply and absolutely adored his wife. He had a charming sense of humour and a beautiful spark in his eyes -- that lit up even more when he was surrounded by his family. Fred was funny, engaging, and engaged. He was loyal, wise and patient. Very patient. Although I know I wore out my welcome many, many times with numerous sleepovers during my teenage years, I always felt more than welcome at the Preston's. Their home was always warm and inviting. A haven and a comfort. Fred had the grace and presence to let each one of his children come into their own without forcing them to be a certain way. He saw their individual potential and let it grow by providing them a safe, comfortable and loving environment that was both encouraging and secure. Fred was funny and warm but also wise and insistent that all people were treated fairly. As a shy and awkward youth, I felt totally comfortable and accepted at the Preston's. Fred was always there with a kind word or encouraging smile. He enjoyed life's little pleasures and totally lit up when I brought him some of my mom's famous homemade cookies. He was a true gentleman and would give you the shirt off his back but was always focused on pointing out the meaning behind life's lessons. I know that his family will miss him terribly and that no words or gestures will take the hurt of his loss away. I also know that Fred has left a wonderful legacy of love and caring and patience. He will be remembered with love and for his kindness and grace. My thoughts remain with the Preston family during this difficult time, especially with Sharon who is my best friend and a living example of Fred's strength of character and charming wit.